Do you agree with the text on the photo?

I do!

I don't like the idea that the more child you have the richer you are. As it may be true with some families but it will still depend on how well you teach them about life. They are your investment but not in a monetary aspect as they will carry your genes for as long as they live and they can pass it on. The time you had spent with them may well be the time they will spend with you in the future.

I believe that if you teach kids the necessary skills to succeed they will be for every grateful. Don't force them to the future you want to have. Instead, show them that with what they have now they can be great in the future. In this way, they can grow knowing that without you they could have done something else that can break the great future they have.

They are your fruit it is your responsibility to let them grow and you need to protect them. It is like taking care of a tree you let it grow and bear fruit but don't ever think that it will always be there without the proper care.

Things I don’t want to tell…

My daughter (if I’ll have one)

1. Mother knows best
With due respect, we all know this, but for me by saying this you are controlling your child no matter in what matter you say it. There is no need to say this if you know that you have raised you child well.

2. Take up this course
I’m a firm believer of do what you want for as long as it makes you happy. It may not be the best choice for the people around you, but know that if your choice is about to eat you alive take responsibility for it. I have being asked a million time “Why did you not take up Nursing in College?” even if I have been done with college for about two years now

Here is the answer that I only reply in my head, please don’t pass you frustration to me.


3. Does he not remind you of your father (in a negative way)
So what, we are not yet married and you are not even sure if I want to marry even.


I think that’s about it these are the top 3. So if even I do have a daughter in the future, remind me of this post. Respect and responsibility are just a few things I want to teach her. I wish to be a friend and a mother at the same time.

This is a lazy Sunday post. Enjoy your Sunday!!!
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